When Empathy Meets Manipulation
The Narcissist will choose the Empath because they instinctively know the Empath will become the Enabler.
Often clients start by saying I am stuck. And ask them what they are stuck about, they have no clear answer. They are very sure of what they do not want but have no clear vision of what they do want.
That what you focus on you will find more of in your life. If we struggle with something we say that we struggle and life is hard. Why not ask: if I don't like this, what do I like and how do I achieve that?
Remove the focus from what you do not want, and start looking for ways and answers to what you do want.
What do you want? What questions will you ask to achieve that? Will you stay committed to what you want? Keep your focus on where you are going, the rest is not your path.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
View ProfileXplorio is your local connection allowing you to find anything and everything about a town.
Read MoreThe Narcissist will choose the Empath because they instinctively know the Empath will become the Enabler.
When fear becomes your norm, it’s often because you’ve jumped ahead in your mind...
But then fear crept in. Doubt settled. And suddenly, the focus shifted - from your why to what if?
Fear and doubt will ensure that you talk yourself out of your new venture even before you start.
As a leader, you are the tone setter.
“I like to say it’s an attitude of not just thinking outside the box, but not even seeing the box.” - Safra A. Catz