Embrace the Bigger Picture
To achieve the life you envision, you must recognise that you are the change that will make it possible.
It is common to say things like "You make me angry," "You make me feel sad," or "You make me uncomfortable." But the truth is that no one can make you feel any of these emotions. Only you have control over your emotions. However, this doesn't mean that you shouldn't feel anger, doubt, fear, sadness, or similar emotions. Instead of seeing these emotions as weaknesses, consider them as gifts that offer an opportunity for growth. Anger can help you discover where you are not respecting your boundaries. Sadness can help you recognize what is truly important in your life. Doubt can point out where you are not believing in yourself or where you believe that you are not good enough. It is important to acknowledge that it is not other people who make you feel these emotions. Although they may play a role, it is ultimately your perceived limitations that trigger these emotions and cause you to suffer. By taking responsibility for your emotions, you can achieve emotional freedom, which is the cornerstone of a confident and powerful person. So, are you ready to receive the gift of opportunity and growth?
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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