When Fear Becomes Normal
When fear becomes your norm, it’s often because you’ve jumped ahead in your mind...
Anger might have once been your defense mechanism, a way to protect yourself or assert control. Maybe it helped you feel powerful when you felt unheard, or it was the only way you knew how to respond to conflict. But what worked in the past is now weighing you down - anger has become your default setting, and it’s stealing your peace.
The good news? You are not your anger.
Like any habit, this automatic response can be rewired. You don’t have to carry the burden of explosive reactions, regret, or strained relationships.
Breaking free from the anger cycle means:
• Recognizing what triggers you and why.
• Learning new ways to express yourself without aggression or guilt.
• Shifting from reaction to response, taking control instead of being controlled.
• Finding inner peace so external situations no longer dictate your emotions.
Anger doesn’t have to rule your life. You can reset your emotional responses and create a life that feels lighter, calmer, and more empowered.
Are you ready to release the burden and reclaim your freedom? Let’s work together to transform anger into clarity, confidence, and control.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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