Authenticity Over Approval
The chameleon fascinates us.

Many of us enter relationships hoping to fill a void, searching for someone to complete us. But what if the key to a fulfilling relationship isn’t in seeking completion, but in becoming whole ourselves?
When we carry unresolved wounds, self-doubt, or the belief that we are “not enough,” we unintentionally place expectations on others to fix what only we can heal. This leads to disappointment, dependency, and imbalance in our relationships.
A true, healthy relationship is not about seeking - it’s about giving freely.
When you are whole within yourself:
• You love without conditions, not out of need.
• You stand strong in your worth, knowing you are enough.
• You attract relationships based on mutual respect and shared growth.
• You break free from the cycle of seeking validation and start experiencing genuine connection.
Rediscover your completeness so that you can enter relationships from a place of strength, confidence, and love, rather than fear, lack, and longing.
Stop searching for your “better half.” You are already whole.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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