When Empathy Meets Manipulation
The Narcissist will choose the Empath because they instinctively know the Empath will become the Enabler.
“You can’t serve everyone - and you’re not supposed to.”
When you’re just starting out, the pressure to say “yes” to every opportunity can feel overwhelming.
You want to be seen. You want to succeed. But trying to serve everyone waters down your vision, your message, and your energy.
Here’s the truth: The more specific you are about who you serve, the more powerful and impactful your work becomes.
Don’t be afraid to verbalize your ideal client.
Don’t be afraid to own your niche.
Don’t be afraid to say:
“This is who I’m here to help.”
You’re not meant to serve the whole town. You’re meant to serve the right people - the ones who light you up, challenge you, and align with your purpose.
You’re not here to blend in. You’re here to stand out with clarity and confidence.
When you know your client, you serve from a place of power.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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