13 Days to Christmas: Plan of Action - Speak ...
Sit down with your “home” family and discuss what each one of you would like to experience during the holidays.

The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.
So often we search outside of ourselves for validation, love, approval, and peace - without realizing that what we truly long for lives within.
When you’re disconnected from yourself, it’s easy to fall into patterns of people-pleasing, self-abandonment, or relying on others to fill emotional gaps. This is not a weakness - it’s a signal. A gentle nudge asking: "What do I need to give to myself?"
Your personal relationship with YOU sets the tone for everything in your life:
• Your boundaries
• Your confidence
• Your dreams
• Your capacity to love and be loved
The more you speak kindly to yourself, show up for yourself, and listen to your needs, the more grounded and free you become. You stop being swayed by the opinions of others or the need to please - because your cup is already full.
The time to return home to yourself is now - to build that loving, unshakable inner foundation that moves you confidently toward your goals and desires.
You are not missing anything - you are remembering everything.
Start with you. Always with you.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
View ProfileXplorio is your local connection allowing you to find anything and everything about a town.
Read MoreSit down with your “home” family and discuss what each one of you would like to experience during the holidays.
Keeping in accordance with old traditions, the tree was decorated on the 12th day before Christmas and taken down 12 Days after Christmas.
There comes a moment, or a few moments, when we are with family, that we want to run and hide.
Plan, shop, wrap, share, connect - this Christmas time.
Draw your movie, meal, and snack, and enjoy the time with your family.
We have become a society that wants to pay for our relaxation. What about all the things that are for free?