20 Days to Christmas: Check-off Time
Is there anything you didn’t manage to complete this week?

The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.
So often we search outside of ourselves for validation, love, approval, and peace - without realizing that what we truly long for lives within.
When you’re disconnected from yourself, it’s easy to fall into patterns of people-pleasing, self-abandonment, or relying on others to fill emotional gaps. This is not a weakness - it’s a signal. A gentle nudge asking: "What do I need to give to myself?"
Your personal relationship with YOU sets the tone for everything in your life:
• Your boundaries
• Your confidence
• Your dreams
• Your capacity to love and be loved
The more you speak kindly to yourself, show up for yourself, and listen to your needs, the more grounded and free you become. You stop being swayed by the opinions of others or the need to please - because your cup is already full.
The time to return home to yourself is now - to build that loving, unshakable inner foundation that moves you confidently toward your goals and desires.
You are not missing anything - you are remembering everything.
Start with you. Always with you.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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