Authenticity Over Approval
The chameleon fascinates us.

After leaving a narcissistic relationship, your body becomes your greatest ally.
That subtle tension in your chest, the knot in your stomach, the sense that something feels familiar - that is your built-in early warning system.
“Once you have left the narcissistic relationship, trust the feeling of familiarity. Your early warning system never lies.”
Familiar doesn’t mean safe. It often signals that the same patterns are trying to return.
When that feeling rises:
Listen. Your intuition is speaking.
Leave quickly. No hesitation, no bargaining.
Release guilt. Protecting your peace is never wrong.
You have already proven your strength by leaving once.
Now trust yourself enough to walk away sooner - without fear, without apology.
Your freedom and your future depend on it.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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