10 Days to Christmas: Learn to Breathe
Most of our problems stem from reactive behaviour
Arrange with the larger family to discuss responsibilities and what will be expected of every person. This way, no person will feel responsible for others or take on too much responsibility.
What you must do:

- You have had your family meeting at home – be ready to speak up for your family.
- Let every member of the family pull on their strengths and take leadership on those.
- Leave the ego at the door – remember your intention for spending this time with the family.
- We know each person's weaknesses and strengths, so do not go out to push buttons and allow every person to shine.
Remember, you are planning to spend time with all these people; if you can start the journey with clarity, it is much easier to maintain it.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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