Self-Respect Over Validation
Standing up for yourself is often misunderstood.

The purpose of your view as to what your imperfection is, is to trigger you to find a solution and healing.
Let us look at our "imperfections" in our bodies. It is a time to learn to love yourself and accept yourself. All things you feel you lack you search for without, and the less you find it without the stronger your determination to find it without and the greater the internal rejection.
Your imperfection of not being good enough, is your opportunity to face your fear of what you "are not good enough " at. Time to look at your strengths and weaknesses and how you can boost one through the other. What can you learn and what new skills can you master.
Your self-proclaimed imperfection is a roadmap to discovering where you must grow, what you must master, to believe and understand that self-love is not indulgent, to find your power and to take a step forward.
It gives you the opportunity to find creative ways to master what you do not like and fear, and then to share that discovery with the world. Every time you shift your way of thinking, you play a role on the world stage. Hey, you are a star.
Are you ready to shift your mindset? Are you ready to grow? Are you ready for an empowered future? Are you ready to be your awesome self? Now tell me what your imperfection is, because that is your door to magic.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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