Anger Management Starts with Healing Your Hid...
If you truly want to be free of the control of your anger, you must heal the pain that feeds the anger.

Anger isn’t just a sudden outburst - it’s a pattern that can settle deep in the body. Over time, tension, resentment, and fear become habits the nervous system remembers. Your body starts to expect anger, to crave the familiar rush, even when your heart longs for peace.
If this feels familiar, you’re not alone. Many people silently carry this weight, unsure how to change it. You might notice:
• Feeling hijacked by emotion - In the heat of the moment, it’s as if something else takes over.
• Old wounds driving today’s reactions - Unresolved pain, unspoken hurts, and beliefs of “I’m not safe” keep the fire alive.
• Relationships under strain - Loved ones walk on eggshells, or you pull away to avoid hurting them.
• Physical toll - Sleepless nights, tension, and health issues that come from a body wired for fight.
Transformation Coaching guides you to break the cycle - not by suppressing anger, but by healing its roots. Together we will:
• Detox the body and mind so peace becomes your new baseline.
• Uncover and release the beliefs that keep you feeling powerless or disrespected.
• Create new habits of response, so you pause, breathe, and choose clarity instead of eruption.
• Rewrite the old stories and build a strong, calm self-image.
• Restore relationships through honest communication and empathy - for yourself first, then others.
This isn’t about becoming someone you’re not. It’s about remembering the person you already are beneath the anger - steady, resilient, and in control.
You don’t have to live in a constant state of tension. You can retrain your mind and body to seek harmony over hostility. Let’s walk this path together and help you return to the peace, love, and strength that are your birthright.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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