Leaving a Narcissist: Rediscover Yourself and...
Leaving is more about discovery and reconnecting to yourself.
The top of the mountain is your motivation. The step you take today is your freedom.
Have you ever felt that you have failed because you haven't moved on and stepped straight into a happy, successful new life?
Please be kind to yourself.
After years of focusing on someone else's needs, keeping the peace and simply getting through each day, you may need time to rediscover yourself.
You are learning to trust yourself again. To believe in yourself. To discover what you like, what you desire and what makes you feel alive.
You are not failing. You are learning to live again.
Leaving opens the possibility of a new journey - one in which you can reconnect with your dreams, rediscover your strengths and decide what you want your future to look like.
There will be days of confidence and days of uncertainty. Be patient. Progress doesn't have to be perfect to be meaningful.
YOUR STEP TODAY: DREAM A LITTLE.
Ask yourself:
• What makes me feel excited about life?
• What dream have I put aside?
• What would I love to experience if I gave myself permission?
• What small step can I take towards it today?
You don't need to reach the summit today. You only need to take the next step.
Let your dreams become your motivation. Allow your curiosity to guide you. Give yourself permission to discover what is possible.
You are worthy of a life in which you do more than exist.
The summit is your motivation. The step you take today is your freedom.
Be patient with yourself. Be kind to yourself. You can do this, one step at a time.
Master Your Beliefs. Master Your Future.
Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...
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