Blog

Whatever is Begun in Anger Ends in Shame

Whatever is Begun in Anger Ends in Shame

Sue Leppan Transformation Facilitator & Life Coach

"Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame" – Benjamin Franklin

Anger is a powerful force—one that often feels justified in the moment but leaves us with regret in its aftermath. When we act out of anger, we lose sight of reason, compassion, and the bigger picture.

It starts with a spark, fueled by fear, rejection, or pain, but if left unchecked, it burns bridges and leaves behind the heavy burden of shame.

The truth is, anger isn’t the real enemy; it’s a signal, pointing to deeper wounds that need healing:

- Fear of loss

- Rejection or judgment

A sense of powerlessness

Instead of letting anger lead to destruction, pause, reflect, and choose a response rooted in understanding and strength. When you master your emotions, you reclaim your power and find peace.

Take charge of your life—don’t let anger write your story. 

Whatever is Begun in Anger Ends in Shame

Sue Leppan Transformation Facilitator & Life Coach

Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...

View Profile

What is Xplorio?

Xplorio is your local connection allowing you to find anything and everything about a town.

WATCH THE VIDEO: Welcome to Barrydale!
Read More

Other Articles

Codependency Is Not Love

Codependency Is Not Love

You give, and give, and give… hoping that one day, it will be enough.

How to Love Without Losing Yourself

How to Love Without Losing Yourself

Somewhere along the way, you started believing that to love fully, you had to lose yourself.

Easy Tips to Choose the Best Interior Paint Colour

Easy Tips to Choose the Best Interior Paint Colour

Choosing the right interior paint colour can feel like a big task, but it doesn't have to be!

Cemcrete Countertops That Transform Your Kitchen

Cemcrete Countertops That Transform Your Kitchen

Looking for a countertop that does more than just look good?

Transform Your Bathroom with Cemcrete’s Timeless Decorative Finishes

Transform Your Bathroom with Cemcrete’s Timeless Decorative Finishes

Every bathroom tells a story - what’s yours?

Concrete Donuts: The Ultimate Sprinkler Protectors

Concrete Donuts: The Ultimate Sprinkler Protectors

Concrete Donuts are the unsung heroes of your irrigation system, stepping in to stop damage before it even happens.

Concrete Donuts
See All Articles