When Anger Speaks, What Is It Really Saying?

When Anger Speaks, What Is It Really Saying?

Sue Leppan Transformation Facilitator & Life Coach

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When Anger Speaks, What Is It Really Saying?

"Anger is the poison you take in the hope of gaining control."

But instead of gaining control, it often leaves you with guilt…
A racing mind.
Tension in your body.
Sleepless nights.

You fear you’ve gone too far.
You worry about the damage to a relationship, your position at work, and how others see you.

And underneath it all is a deeper fear: “What if I get left out? What if I don’t belong?”

That fear doesn’t leave when the anger subsides. It lingers. Quietly.

Undermining your confidence.
Making you question your worth.
And distancing you from the peaceful life you long for.

Anger isn’t who you are - it’s a signal. And with the right tools, you can learn to respond differently. To feel in control, without needing to fight for it. To feel calm, even when life gets overwhelming.

You deserve to feel safe in your own body, in your relationships, and in your life.

Let’s work together to make that possible.

When Anger Speaks, What Is It Really Saying?

Sue Leppan Transformation Facilitator & Life Coach

Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...

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