You are welcome to remain the victim, believing that life happens to you and that you have no power. It is your choice and your right. It will keep you limited, not achieving your goals and dreams, and remaining stuck in the same cycle, but it is your choice.
Or you may choose to say; hey, what was my role in this?
• Did I not enforce my boundaries?
• Did I not believe in myself?
• Did I not love myself enough?
• Did I buy into the other person's limitations?
• Did I give my power away?
Every situation brings the opportunity to learn and master something about yourself. If you choose to be a victim the opportunity will pass you by. If you choose to acknowledge your role, you grow and you become powerful. So what will you choose today? Are you a victim caught in a trap of life or are you an empowered learner mastering yourself and rising to your greatest potential and grabbing every opportunity to grow? Are you ready to BE THE BOSS?