The Power of Hearing What’s Unsaid

The Power of Hearing What’s Unsaid

Sue Leppan Transformation Facilitator & Life Coach

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The Power of Hearing What’s Unsaid

Listening is more than hearing words.

In relationships, we often believe communication means “saying what we feel.” But true communication is not only about talking - it’s about listening.

Most people talk around their fears and hurts because exposing them feels too vulnerable. They may joke, deflect, or avoid certain topics altogether. The real message is often found in what is left unsaid.

When we listen with presence, without preparing our response, we begin to hear the subtle truths:

• The pain points our partner is carefully avoiding.
• The fears they are silently battling.
• The areas where they are trying to grow.

When we learn to truly listen - beyond words, beyond defenses - we meet the other person where they are. This is where deeper understanding, compassion, and genuine connection are built.

When we truly listen, we will hear what the fears and hurts are that the other person wants to avoid.

The Power of Hearing What’s Unsaid

Sue Leppan Transformation Facilitator & Life Coach

Sue Leppan is a life, transformation and holistic wellness coach based in Sandbaai, Hermanus. Providing therapy for a range of challenges, Sue specialises in targeting and dealing with emotional trauma, self-doubt, depression, stagnation and self-centring. Whether you need help with personal issues ...

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